We used the Living Urn for my mother. She was adamantly opposed to an kind of formal burial and wanted cremation and a "remembrance party". In addition my mother wanted her ashes under a plant of some sort and she already had a spot picked out. Until I read your ad I had no idea how to do that. When the package came it was exactly as needed. I built a pergola large enough to hold a small table and two chars that would overlook Crape Myrtle Tree we planted. With your Urn we were able to fulfill her wishes. Her tree sits in the spot she originally picked out and with your "kit" I was able to prepare the ground. It was and is a perfect memorial for someone that wants an option for burial. Thank you.